I didn’t intend to take a three week break from blogging – it just kind of happened and I suppose it was a natural break. Once again we are in a transition phase, kind of closing up a chapter of our lives and starting in on a new one and it works out nicely that it coincides with the new year. My husband will be leaving on a military deployment SOON so I will be shifting into “single parent” mode and all that goes along with it (as well as putting together some AWESOME care package ideas so stay tuned!). Since the husband was my carpenter for the laundry drying racks we are also putting the Etsy shop into hibernation. I’m not sure yet if that is temporary or permanent, but I do know that it is a relief to be able to put my concentration and energies more fully into everything else right now. In November we did a massive build with the rest of our supplies and I am happy to report that as of last night the last lonely drying rack in our inventory is SOLD.
My husband was out of town for training most of December so when he got home a couple of days before Christmas we enthusiastically jumped into Family Time mode and have been having a blast. If we had a Winter Bucket List we probably would have checked off most of it in the last few weeks. We did all the Christmas festivities and parties, took the kids snowmobiling, had sledding parties, ice skating, tubing, enjoyed many cups of hot cocoa and learned the importance of wearing ski masks in subzero weather, saw the much-anticipated new Star Wars movie, have had more than our share of yummy meals out, shopping, date nights, and even ran away for a night for some extended one on one time with the husband. It’s been fun and wonderful and…exhausting. We have another four day weekend coming up (geesh, already?!) and I have no idea what’s left on the list of family fun and entertainment ideas but I suppose we will figure something out. Then I’m pretty sure I will willingly and happily jump into our “new normal” routine.
In among all of that I really have been putting a lot of thought into shifting gears and doing some of my typical end of the year introspection. I realized I had hit the end of my 101 in 1001 List time frame (wow time flies!), and will be posting a new list soon. And, of course, I have chosen my Word for 2016 and signed up for another round of Ali Edwards One Little Word workshop (the One Little Word concept is something I’ve been doing for quite a few years now. For those of you not familiar with it, as opposed to setting goals or resolutions, it is simply selecting a word for the year that resonates with you and using that to focus and explore in your life) and have put a lot of thought into where I am heading this year. I know 2016 is going to be a big one for personal endurance with Sam being deployed for at least the first half of the year and really wanting to get the approvals for the new house going (all by myself). I foresee plenty of work, plenty of frustrations, and I want to be able to stay centered and calm – and happy and peaceful despite anything I may be dealing with. The giant list of To Dos will get done (mostly) and the time will pass, but I want my efforts to be not on making it to some sort of finish line but on my state of mind. To not spend my time wishing for something different. To not be overwhelmed with the big picture but to know that I only have to take it one step at a time and I can handle that. I also know that I really want to focus on the people in my life. To give them more of what they may be needing – love, kindness, attention, time.
The word I have chosen for this year is
I want to give love, give kindness, give joy, to actively decide that whatever I am doing with my time and energy at any particular moment is something I am giving freely, willingly, and happily.
I love that the word give can be used in so many ways – give it all you’ve got, give it a chance, give yourself a break – and that all of them are positive. I also love that it can be applied to the physical as in actually giving gifts (and I have oh-so-many ideas for that already from Rand Acts of Kindess to big guestures) and to the less tangible things like time and acceptance. It’s a big concept and I’m looking forward to exploring it this year.
What’s even more fun is that my 12 year old is really into the concept this year too. She has chosen her own word and already made a magnet for the fridge as well as led a conversation with the rest of the family and insisted they all choose words. It’s fun to see her take some initiative an to see her enthusiasm, no matter how much or how little time she spends exploring her word later on.
Do you have a word for this year? A goal or list of goals? I would love to hear more about it – please share! And feel free to check out the Pinterest board where I will be saving all my quotes and ideas for Giving this year. (Who doesn’t love Pinterest right?!)
And as always, have a Happy Wednesday! 😉
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